I took a break at lunch today and went to sit on a bench at a beach not far from work. As is typical on hot and sunny midsummer days it was well-populated both with young moms and toddlers, and with beautiful teens in nearly-nothing bikinis. As an aside to my story, I find not at all unpleasant the sight of two groups of four such lasses meeting and exchanging every combination of excited happy hugs.
While I sat taking in the air and sun, I noticed a woman, not dressed for a day at the beach, walking slowly along the path that borders it. She stopped every few feet, faced the beach, found a group of girls — my view wasn't perfect, but she appeared to be concentrating on the beach bunnies rather than the families — and very obviously snapped a photo with her SLR. She was not being shy about it, nor hurrying. She was not credentialed or uniformed in any way I could detect. After a couple of dozen photos she strolled off.
Obviously, I have no idea of her interests or motives. Could be as innocent as having a new camera and wanting to try out its bright-sun features. Could be she is trend-spotting as a buyer for next year’s swimsuits. Might have been a newspaper photographer needing a beach shot for the weather section.
But imagine if a man had done the same thing. Would one of the lifeguards have asked what he was up to? Would a passing police officer have asked to see the photos? Would the assumption have been that he was perving on the tight little almost-naked teens and preparing to head home for a session of... study and review?
Not having tried the experiment, I can’t really say. But I think the presumption of ill intentions is there for men. Justifiably? Maybe. I regret it, however.
— Frenulum
Perhaps she was walking along and noticed the sweet tartlets and thought, "Oh, my Sir would love the beauty here!" So she took some shots to share with Him when He arrived home!
ReplyDeleteThat is a very hopeful interpretation, and a better one than I had imagined. I do so hope it is correct.
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